I do what I do so I can do what I do.
Created during the labor movement in the late 19th century, Labor Day pays tribute to the contributions and achievements of the hardworking American workers. It became a federal holiday in 1894.
Labor Day weekend, for most, also symbolizes the end of summer. These four days are often spent taking short trips out of town, watching or participating in local parades, and hosting or attending backyard BBQ gatherings. On Friday night, we look forward to what the weekend holds in store for us. By mid-Monday, we are thinking about how quickly the time has gone. Seemingly, it’s over in a blink of an eye.
Labor Day, 2020 will hold special meaning for many workers. Particularly those who have been on the front lines during the pandemic. Our fireman, police officers, physicians, nurses, aides, store clerks, the list goes on and on, have toiled through unimaginable conditions, all the while managing to keep their personal lives intact. It quite literally may be the first opportunity for these extraordinary people to take a pause, albeit too brief, to enjoy some of the simple pleasures the holiday brings with it.
Paying tribute to a special kind of laborer...💖
On a flight from Florida to Ohio to see my mother, I met a woman named Teddie. She was kind, attentive, and despite the mask, I could see she was wearing a smile. There was a twinkle in her eyes and a gentle tone to her voice. It wasn’t anything she did or said, but there was a sense of ease she possessed that immediately made me feel comfortable in her company. Before the plane left the ground, Teddie and I were deep in conversation.
Teddie inquired as to why I was flying to Ohio. I explained that I was going to see my mother at the nursing home where she resides. And although I was disappointed the visit would be taking place through a glass window, I was looking forward to our time together. I also shared details of my mother’s health and the slightly guilty feelings I had been dealing with because of the miles between us. She listened intently. At one point, Teddie reached out and held my hand. I thanked her for, despite all of the concerns about Covid-19, comforting me. She asked me a few questions about my mom’s health and her deep sense of isolation and then made a few suggestions to help keep her spirits up.
Teddie shared with me that she had only lived in Florida for a few months, like me. She was attending a small celebration involving her family in Ohio and made mention that since moving, she had not had any time off from work. Her days, Teddie said, were running into nights and vice-versa. She spoke of feeling somewhat exhausted but was ultimately pleased with the work she was doing. My travel companion was grateful for her brief yet appreciated downtime.
Eventually, Teddie let me know that she was a nurse and described her current position requirements. She discussed the circumstances that had led her to her field of nursing without going into too many details. However, Teddie explained that the most cherished part of her day was holding the hands of those patients whose families could not be present. She felt humbled and blessed by the experience. She hoped to have been a source of comfort in their hour of need.
I do not doubt that she was, in fact, a source of comfort. After all, her compassion came so naturally. And, if there was ever a person that seemed so well suited for their position, it was Teddie.
Our time together will forever hold a special place in my heart. As will our new friendship!
This Labor Day, I will think of Teddie and the countless other essential workers. I am hopeful that they will be able to exchange their masks and protective gear for a pair of flip flops and sunglasses. I hope the hand they hold is that of the special someone in their life. I hope they will travel, cook-out, or participate in outdoor activities. And finally, I hope that whatever it is that they are doing...it brings them joy!
To all of the essential workers...Thank you for all you have done, all that you do, and all that you will do in the coming days. Take care and God bless!
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